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I’ve seen a lot of posts telling of experiences of people telling others to be kind and then not being kind themselves. So its a topic I want to open a discussion on.

Social media had created a huge barrier to seeing the consequences of our actions and words. Maybe this is what the media have become accustomed to, not seeing the consequences of their work. I’ve been really thinking about whether we really know what kindness is in these times. I’d love to hear your opinion on what kindness is.

I thought I’d make a list of what I think being kind is and isn’t. This is not about perfection or 100% of the time. but the effort we put into practicing kindness.

What is being kind?
Its not posting that pic of the overweight stranger with a rude comment or inviting others to make degrading comments. Being kind is not making fun of a random person in a meme. Its choosing not to criticise others by claiming “I’m just being honest”. Being kind is not joining in with making fun of others.


It isn’t forcing your opinion on someone else you don’t agree with. Being kind is being respectful even in disagreement. Accepting our differences is being kind. Being kind is not arguing your point and shouting over others. Knowing you dislike someone, being kind is being respectful anyway.


Being kind is not involving yourself in other people’s drama. It is walking away, scrolling by or blocking people you dislike. Its not sitting behind a screen and saying whatever you like about and to people because you can’t see the consequences. Being kind is taking accountability for your words and actions. Knowing that your words have the potential to hurt others and making a conscious effort to use respectful words is being kind.

Being kind is respecting other people’s boundaries, emotions and mental health. Not only a random act every so often, it is an everyday occurrence. Being nice to others, even when no one else is looking. Being kind is being mindful that everyone is fighting a battle you don’t know about. Stepping in when no one else will is being kind. Being kind is treating others with kindness, respect and courtesy.

Being kind is offering a compliment (not a backhanded one) to others.
Its being supportive, using nice, kind and respectful words.
Being kind isn’t hiding behind “It’s my right to have banter / opinion” regardless of who gets hurt. Often, being kind is sometimes saying nothing.

Being kind to yourself is also important so please don’t forget that too.

Add yours in the comments.

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